It’s a great time of year! Yet, it often leaves the individual that lacks focus in a daze because their goals aren’t clear or their purpose is not defined. The result is that, when the cool air of Fall arrives, they want to accomplish something but even if they know what it is they want to do, they don’t quite know how to get there.

Does this sound like you? If so, are you planning to do anything about it?

Remember; “What you do when you don’t have to, determines where you’ll be when you can’t help it.”

Don’t wait until the new year to start fresh on your dreams and desires….DO IT NOW!

This past summer I had a few clients “graduate” from the life coaching exercises designed for their benefit.

This means that I have a few more openings for clients that are ready to make a difference in their lives.

Is your “Inner You” calling you and suggesting it’s time to get serious about charting a more successful course in life? If so send me an email and we’ll discuss how this may come to pass….

Email me by clicking on this link: paul@paulgregorylifecoach.com or just fill in the contact form below and I’ll give you a call on my dime!

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As your mind fails to zero in on specifics, it tends to attract the easiest stimuli to obtain. This stimuli can be almost anything, but rarely will it move you forward in your life.

When you are unclear on what it is you want to accomplish your mind is fertile ground for anyone else’s suggestions. This should be RED FLAG time! When you look at the state of many peoples’ lives, it is apparent that they live in a directionless world of survival. And, if you’re not careful, this mindset can settle in on you and subconsciously keep you from making the progress you could and should make in any and all areas of your life.

The remedy for this circumstance is clearly written, specific goals with a plan for how you’ll accomplish them.

Of course there’s more to it than that and that’s what you’ll learn from

http://www. praxispersonaldevelopment.com

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The problem with looking at externals is that they change like the weather. Putting too much emphasis on conditions that are constantly changing is placing your energy into less than advantageous places.

This is precisely where a personal life coach can help you…

Setting and achieving your personal goals is not nearly as difficult as you might think.

The operative word here is ‘think’. Why? Because most people don’t think of the fact, that there are natural creative forces constantly working on their behalf. These forces work to bring about the realization, the manifestation, of their goals. Just thinking about and believing in a ‘greater power’ being with you, helping you achieve your goals, makes all the difference!

The 5 to 1 Principle

There is a phenomenon that is constantly operating on you. The 5 vs. 1 principle.

Because you are human, you have a tendency to judge by appearances. You do this by employing your five senses. Sight, sound, touch, taste and smell tend to create reactions within you that make you tend to believe what you can physically see, hear or feel. Most of the time, especially when you just begin to start working toward a new goal or dream, what “appears” to be real isn’t. All outer appearances may signal that you are nowhere near that which you seek to attain. This causes you to adjust your opinions, expectations and beliefs accordingly, usually in a negative way. When you do this you fail to realize that you are making decisions on “bad data”. When you focus on externals only, you make judgments and decisions on incorrect premises that hamper results and inhibit your natural goal achievement process. In fact, can even limit your ability of being fully alive, if you let it.

Most people judge by appearances. Appearances are quite often, very deceiving. Due to the natural tendency of human beings to let fear, doubt and worry creep into their mind, whenever things turn out to match those negative emotions the appearance is perceived to be real. And, when you perceive that the circumstance is real then your perception becomes your reality. At this point you impose limitations on yourself that are faulty, but your deeper mind doesn’t know the difference because it can’t choose. It only carries out the wishes (choices) of your conscious mind’s thinking and reasoning!

One of the best examples I can give involves finances. If someone looks in their checking

account and sees a balance of $25.00, they tend to think; “I only have $25.00 and I can’t afford this or that”. Thus the direction that is given to your ‘deeper’ mind is; I believe this condition is real and thus your energy pool to draw from is limited. In other words, your mind will come up with ways to make sure that the limitation you’ve imposed on yourself is carried out with to the letter of your belief!

It’s the old “tip of the iceberg phenomena”. There is always much more going on deep below the surface. When we judge and believe only by what we see, we’re setting a trap for ourselves called ‘limitation’.

It’s as if you needed ice and had all the ice you wanted in the form of an iceberg that you owned. Then when someone wanted to buy an entire iceberg of ice from you, but, you could only see the tip of the iceberg (believing that this was all you had in your “inventory’) so you didn’t fill their order! The part of the iceberg under the water is the limitless potential of your sixth sense.

The five senses are in direct contrast to this inner ‘sixth sense’. Your sixth sense is where your drive, imagination, intuition, etc… come from. This is your spiritual side. It is constantly giving you cues as to what to do to make life better.

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